Embracing Gratitude: Reflections on Connection Amid Struggles

In a reflective column marking over 21 years of writing, Scott “Q” Marcus emphasizes the importance of gratitude during challenging times. As he prepares for the holiday season, Marcus urges readers to pause and appreciate the connections that provide support and stability amidst global turmoil.

Finding Gratitude in Difficult Times

This week, Marcus noted he has penned 698 columns, a testament to his ongoing dialogue with readers since May 2004. He acknowledges that some pieces have been recycled or adapted over the years, resulting in discrepancies in his column count. However, the themes of his writing remain consistent, particularly the importance of gratitude in an increasingly complex world.

As he looks back at his earlier work, Marcus finds that many challenges remain unresolved. He cites ongoing issues such as major wars in Europe and the Middle East, escalating climate change, and rising food insecurity, all contributing to a sense of unease in 2025. “It is no exaggeration to say that 2025 has been a thorny year,” he reflects, highlighting the pressing social and political issues that affect many lives.

“It is not happiness that makes us grateful. It is gratefulness that makes us happy.” — Brother David Steindl-Rast

In these turbulent times, Marcus draws inspiration from the words of Brother David Steindl-Rast, a Benedictine monk and advocate for gratitude. He emphasizes that recognizing the gift of each moment can foster a deeper sense of appreciation. This perspective can serve as a guiding light, even when circumstances appear bleak.

The Power of Connection and Community

Amid the chaos, Marcus highlights the importance of family and friends, who provide essential support. He describes how these relationships act as safe harbors, helping individuals navigate life’s difficulties. “When we drift off course, they nudge us back,” he writes, capturing the nurturing role that loved ones play during challenging moments.

As the holiday season approaches, Marcus encourages readers to reflect on their blessings. He reminds us that, despite personal struggles, many possess more than those facing dire circumstances. “Gratitude is not naïve. It is perspective,” he asserts, urging individuals to acknowledge their fortunes even when it feels difficult. He encourages an excess of gratitude this season, advocating for sharing that appreciation with others.

In a practical demonstration of this spirit, Marcus is coordinating the fifth annual “Free Decoration and Toy Giveaway” on December 6, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Eureka Center for Spiritual Living, located at 239 Buhne St.. This event aims to provide joy and support to those in need, as thousands of dollars worth of decorations and toys will be distributed free of charge, with no questions asked.

Those interested in learning more about this initiative can reach out to Marcus directly at [email protected]. As the year draws to a close, his message serves as a timely reminder of the importance of gratitude, connection, and community in overcoming life’s challenges.